"Anal is the new oral," says syndicated sex columnist Dan Savage. . But it's not like girls are ready for it—it's something they do when they're. It can feel like anal sex for women is the final frontier. Once you’ve gone anal, it can feel like you’ve covered everything “taboo” that you can possibly cover, sexually speaking. We may not have totally embraced anal sex as a regular part of our sexual repertoire, but I think we.